Klutzy

I am having a day. You know the kind, you spill something all over your sweater (it’s white),. then trip walking on a flat surface, and so on and so forth. I have always been considered klutzy (my mom said she sould have named me Grace), and considering my day she probably should have :D.

The thing about this (meaning gracefulness) is usually that I am focused on something else rather than what I should be doing. Meaning looking at my phone rather than walking and walking into a door (in high heels no less). You know what I mean right? This is proof I shouldn’t try to multi-task. I tell myself I can but, I can’t. No one really can.

That gives me pause. I mean a really good pause. It makes me understand that I need to do what is most important for me. What is in my best interest? I am not sure I know or that I do this on a consistent basis, sometimes I think that I severely fail, after all, most moms do. Kids come before everything all you do is for them.

When my kids were small, I did what I thought was right. Not that it was all the time, but in my head, it was for the best possible outcome. That is what all moms do and boy do we fail. I was not the best mom or the worst. But, that is not the point of this post. The point is whether you are klutzy with kids, your life, or walking you need to just keep stepping. It gets easier, and you get better. Oh, and stop multi-tasking you can’t do it no one person can. Give your attention to the most important thing and then go from there.

The most important person in the world is you. You must take care of yourself first because you cannot take care of anyone else unless you take care of yourself. Ask for help, and take it back when it’s offered. Believe me, I am learning this, and boy do I fail. But, I am going to keep stepping and hope it gets easier 😉

❤ ME